My Story
I spent years in the beauty industry, even running my own salon. Life felt like it was falling into place when I met an amazing man—someone full of kindness and beautiful qualities. At 31, I had the wedding I’d always dreamed of and looked forward to a new chapter in my life. Around this time, I started seeing a Neuro-life Coach to help me understand parts of myself that were making life a little harder than it needed to be. I wanted to know why I got frustrated so easily or why stress made me react in ways I regretted. I knew I needed help to express myself better, so people could really hear what I was trying to say. The journey of working on myself was empowering and exciting—I’ve always been someone who’s focused on growth and self-improvement.
Then, just seven weeks after my wedding, everything fell apart. My husband passed away in a freak accident, and that day is one I will never forget. The image of that day replayed over and over in my mind, and I had no idea how I would survive the pain and loss. That’s when a story began that only God could have written. My father-in-law asked me to take on my husband's role in their Transport family business, something I never thought I could do. But I said “yes” without hesitation, even though I had no clue what I was getting into.
I went from making women feel beautiful to standing in the rain, covered in grease and oil, helping fix trucks. I’d find myself lying under trucks, thinking, “How did I get here? How am I supposed to do this?” I didn’t know if I could make it through, but I had no choice but to keep going. There were days when I was so overwhelmed that I just collapsed. I remember meeting God on the bathroom floor, in the middle of the chaos of losing my husband and being in an industry I knew nothing about, and realizing I had to grow through this. It wasn’t my first time facing loss of a partner, and I knew deep down that this was a moment where I had to let God teach me something. It was then that I made the choice to push forward and do everything I could to come out stronger. Deciding to see my life coach more often was one thing I could do.
With the support of my life coach, my family, friends, and my faith in God, I kept moving forward. As God was working with me in Our relationship during that time teaching me and moulding me, my life Coach walked with me through the darkest times as well, guiding my growth in ways that sometimes surprised even me. I started to see how much I had changed, how much stronger I’d become. My emotional functioning was improving, my ability to say no, getting up in the mornings got easier, having dreams for myself and my future, having healthy relationships, learning to manage my stress and having tools to help myself get in a better mental space. And that’s when I knew: I needed to share this with others. Although I have always had a love for helping others, now I wanted to equip myself with the same tools and techniques I had been helped with. Trusting the MLNP technique because I knew it worked. For me the proof was in the pudding
So, in the middle of all the chaos, I made the decision to study Neuro-life Coaching. I realized how important it is to have someone who can walk with you through life’s toughest moments and help you grow, whether you’re in a good place or whether you’re meeting God on the bathroom floor, feeling like your world is falling apart. We all deserve the chance to become a better version of ourselves, but we don’t have to do it alone.
I’m still growing, and I know I have more work to do on myself, which is why I continue to see my life coach. But through my experiences, my faith, and the people who have supported me, I’ve learned that growth is a lifelong process, and I’d love to help you find that same strength and clarity in your own life. Now, I’m here to help you in your journey, wherever you are..